Using a strap-on with an escort girl, a dominatrix or his wife is an activity in full evolution.
The sexuality of human beings becomes more complex at the same time as society becomes more complicated. Among the utensils to upset the deal, the strap-on, also called strapon, flip the cards for the next century. These are all mechanisms of appearance that we will dissect to better understand the growing success of the dildo-belt in the escort girl.
History of the strap-on
Ancient China, ancient Greece but also Egypt of the pharaohs, the strap-on has more or less appeared in its current form punctually in great civilizations. To review the history of strap-on at the scale of humanity, I recommend this article: the story of the strap-on.
The dildo-belt is a product that could prevail in lesbian porn at first. Thus, it could impose itself as a product helping to the blossoming of a lesbian relation without coming to scramble the cards. Indeed, this dummy phallus will cause sexual tensions incomparable in many masochists and an explosion of solicitations escort to the dildos-belts.
The technical sheet: the strap-on
The strap-on has several terminologies. We also talk about strapon dildo or dildo harness. In French, the term strap-on is preferred at the expense of harness dildo. It is a dildo, connected to his harness, the latter being usually attached to a string or a corset.
Type of harness: the harness can have 2 or 3 straps and thus be attached to a thong or corset in the vast majority of cases. However, let us quickly evoke the inventiveness of the fetishists who made harnesses for the jaw (during cunnilingus or for denial of orgasm) to see a boot (just to be jumped directly by the leather boot).
Dildo type: most dildo harnesses have a fixing ring that allows experimenting with different kind of dildos. Vibrator or dildos of different sizes, of course, only the novelties are in the direction of the new 2-way harness with most of the time the egg vibrating family masturbator male sex toys on the side of the “bugger” and dildo of the other. This allows a more interactive sexual relationship where the sexual organs of both protagonists are stimulated.
Who uses a strap-on?
The strap-on is one of the favorite instruments of lesbian escort in London. It must be said that there are no better tools for projecting on masculine sensations and for including some dominant/dominated in a sexual sappist relationship. Many lesbian London escort and use the strap-on dildo to please and not to be confined to caresses, rubbing (including tribadism: mutual rubbing of the vulva) and other kisses. Moreover, it is interesting to know that penetration is also almost systematic in lesbian sex. The strap-on dildo is, therefore, a place of choice.
The second big family of the strapon is occupied by domineering escorts and their submissive armies ever more demanding. There are different ways for a Parisian dominatrix to address the issue of strapon with her favorite masochist.
The Pegging, less known as “pegging”
Although the term pegging is less used than its English equivalent pegging, its practice is widespread among BDSM enthusiasts. Pegging refers to the act of a woman entering a man. Mistress man for short. The pegging can be applied during a feminization session in particular or regularly within a couple. For those who are interested, I advise you to take a look at this small guide to pegging: pegging guide & pegging practice.
Denial of orgasm
The topic was introduced in the introduction with the harness-jaw that will allow the subject to penetrating his female companion during cunnilingus. Thus, he can not touch his mistress let alone penetrate if it is not with the help of these back and forth that gives an appearance of fellatio penetration, #brouillageesgenres. We speak then of denial of orgasm, a game of domination focused on the symbolic castration of the man.
The revanchist girl
Sometimes girls with feminist tendencies want to break with the classic sexual relations that put the woman into a passive position. With the strap-on, a couple can play the “reverse” or “role reversal” (reversed roles) to take the most popular tags on the web libertine.
The libertine spirit
Remembering her feelings by fucking her husband is the bet launched by the dildo industry for years to come. Whether for a threesome or couples, libertines and libertines are going to the heart. Let’s not forget that a heterosexual couple has 5 holes to have fun; the strapon is there to remind.
Homo repressed in curious couple
Using a dildo in the company of a dominatrix or your wife does not mean that you are gay. Moreover, many men claim to be disgusted by the idea of sucking a man’s penis but revel in pumping a strap-on dildo fixed on the body of a Brazilian atomic bomb. Whatever they say, there is still some hetero-flexibility in this practice and some attraction for the phallic form, subject that we will address following the article.
Finally, the practice of pegging a couple is not acceptable in society, so it creates a new intimate space. The new sexual experiences strengthen the couples; it’s a little secret, the pleasure of drifting two.
Erectile dysfunction
Less funny, but very real, the dildo belt can also be used for cases of erectile dysfunction. The man cannot bend going to use a strap-on dildo to satisfy his wife or his ass plan of a night. An acceptable alternative and the rare and unique pleasure of being well mounted.
Happy pegging, the new territory to conquer
Word derived from the “happy ending” very used by escorts masseuses; happy pegging is still little known. This technical subject that we will discuss is the margin of progress that the “happy pegging” holds, which consists in the fact that the woman penetrates the man with love, that is to say without a dominant / dominated relationship, mistress / submitted.
The sexual practice appeared in feminist circles; it seems that women very appreciate this practice for its ethical and egalitarian side. No masochistic schemas, just the pleasure of having a more extended sexual relationship and bringing back the passive position as glorious as the active position. This practice is however slightly slowed by the lack of interest of the men for this practice which they would describe as “too clean” and too sanitized by the lack of a balance of power in favor of a too feminine or even lesbian love.
Indeed, the strap-on has been at the heart of the concerns of porn studies, where feminists had the intelligence to question porn and modern sexuality to understand a little better how to apply to their philosophy.
Developed by pro-sex feminists, porn studies has made it possible to highlight the problem of ejaculation as a real tool of domination more than penetration. The sperm jet facial on an escort girl indeed seems to provide evidence of the enjoyment and satisfaction of the man. On the other hand, the woman’s pleasure is more mysterious, more complicated to see, to feel (which provokes the inevitable suspicions of the simulation).
With the arrival of the strap-on in feminist sexual practices, the cards are folded because the dildo is only used to give pleasure. Indeed, a strap-on dildo does not ejaculate (except some model reserved for masochists, they are reassured). The strap-on denies the notion of ejaculation and therefore domination to allow greater “sexual activity”, without being bothered by premature ejaculations and focusing only on the pleasure offered to his partner. In summary, sexuality of dykes that extends into the hetero universe.
Precautions about the experiment of the dildo-belt with an escort
The use of a strap-on with an escort girl requires some precautions. The first is to put some lube on if you are not excited about getting your ass fucked dry. This will avoid friction or hemorrhoids.
The second requires protection. Eh, yes, a dildo comes in contact with mucous membranes like any organ, so it is prudent to put a condom. Besides, it will allow you to feel this as a real benefit because of all the ceremonial surrounding condom placement.
